Monday, September 13, 2010

Frustration

So I just have to get something off my chest. I know that everyone has something that they would like to spend all their money or time doing. And for my husband that something is video games. Since we got married or even through the last few years of dating he gave me the money to handle so that he wouldnt spend it unwisley. Which for the most part works although we are just broke a lot. So he has not purchased a lot of games. Only the ones that he tells me months in advance so we can save for it. Which I am fine with. I am even fine when he wants to spend hours at a time playing these games. The only problem I have is when I need something done or want to go out and do something and he says NO because of those damn games. It goes in phases, and I understand double points weekend yada yada. But these last few weeks its just been overwhelming. I wanted him to come to Kristens birthday dinner and to say goodbye to Danielle and he whined because he had to get off his game. Friday last week, my only day that week off, I told him straight to his face that I wanted to spend time with him because it was my only day off. And he stayed on his game, then bitched at me because I didnt want to go see a movie that was based on a game! I ended up caving because I wanted to spend time with him. But today was kind of my last straw. I have been waiting for months to get my hope chest and dresser from my parents and he got off at 2pm and has class at 6:30. All I wanted was for him to drive two miles to load them in my parents van and thats all. I would have helped unload them and he said no because he wouldnt have enough time to get his "achievments". AHHH! Ok I know that you like this shit, but really? I needed like 1/2 hour of your time and you couldnt spare it from your damn video game. ITS A GAME! And when I call to talk to him yesterday he SCREAMED at me because I knew what he was doing and that he couldnt answer his phone and if I wanted something that I could come home. Nothing in my opinion gives you the right to talk to me like that, ESPECIALLY your fucking video game.... Thats it for my ranting for now. I am just so upset because for the last few months we have not had this issue. It was rather nice. :-(

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